terobaje, why are you having hard time to accept the reality and so reluctant to admire those who go back to the country- at least, majority of  them are in a better position to make a difference than majority of those who are here, irrespective of their status. So why in a hell, what is need of being a jealous for the people who are here living here-isolated from their relatives, their country, from their own place-irrespective of how much money you are making-are they really happy? tension free? relaxed? -even from Suman kharel's point of view, having got US citizenship, still he is not happy-(he may not accept and pretend that is different matter) but his whining story give clear picture!