True that our parents/elders already have their own views, but that doesnt mean WE are going to be the same.

Like it or not, your environment shapes your values and outlook. We might not be able to change THEIR mentality, but at least let us not restrict OUR mentality to be the same :P

Lastly, what I would like to point out is that we are not in a "restricted" society no more. Gone are the days when if you were at Wimpy Burger king with a bunch of friends, you'd have the potential to run into a family friend or a member. Thus cramping your "style" effectively. Here chances of you running into close family is pretty slim (unless you live with them). 

Nepal is a small country no doubt, and once you start talking to people you kinda somehow always end up having a common person between you two, but that shouldnt restrict you. As long as you keep a good relationship with people who are close you should be able to do your thing.

Those who mind dont matter, and those who matter dont mind. ~Dr. Seuss.