If you are going to be all over my face why I didnt send money to nepal, you better move the f**k out of my way. (good point mustainefan). If your old man is in trouble, work double shift and try to bail him out. If he is NOT, buy a 24 pack and chill! 

2nd, I was at a Hindi Store trying to buy some khasi ko masu. There were a bunch of Nepalis there. (I am new to the area) I see them, give them a friendly smile and a nod, and move on. No. It wasn't enough for them (3 30+yr old guys and 2 women). They had to profile me and my gf. "Nepali jasto cha" "hera kt ghumayera". I understand that it is interesting to meet new nepali people, but dont go with a preconcieved notion of what he/she is going to be like.

There are wide 'assortment' of people here. From those who've been slogging it for the past 25 years, to 'fresh off the boat' youngsters in college, to dv parne families. Many have different backgrounds and experiences that shape their outlook. I dont have anything against people who live with their families and ONLY with their families, but please dont judge others based on the norms of the nepali 'saamaj' back home! This does NOT apply here. There are people amongst us who live by themselves and actually have a more diverse and open lifestyle than yours! 

The truth: Nepali people have evolved.

Peace.