sajha used to be in strict control by san back in those days. even in chat there used to be moderators and people could get banned for misbehaving. nepalnews.com was the site where you could go and be called all kinds of names. the crowd was disrespectful. Sajha was mostly limited to people in the US, mostly students and people were courteous to each other. but that changed, and people like sitara and oys started getting attacked for their postings and eventually the good people decided to find other hobbies. now sajha is limited to people with how to file fake asylum, how to enter Nepal by India, how to loot money in Nepal and file asylum in the US - go back after green card loot more money and comeback - keep the job in Nepal so you can go every once in while and loot more... etc etc..