Mr Dirty nick name

i m sorry u are going through this but i can assure you that we all go through such stage on and off in life...may be not in same extent but please know that we all DO...family are there to support you but sometimes they can also make you feel insignificant and like you are good for nothing.....my parents call me often and make me feel so bad that i havent still done my Masters...i have ok job...have started my family but the only ting they are fixated upon is not being as academically sound as their friends children. They never tell me how kind of a person I am, how many friends I have, how nice my personality is and how Content in life I am but just makes me feel inadequate because of 2 lines missing in my reusme....I have hardly gotten a reassurance from my parents that they are proud of me....but what the heck....there are other things that give me pure JOY and i hold on to them for positive vibes..........

Point is even though we are just content and happy in life at certain point it always hurts because you cant stand ppl feeling pity on you or undermine you....We all make the most of situations and sometimes make choices which is easy at the moment....face it sometimes we dont think longterm and make choices that is most feseable at the time,....dont let them distort your perception of your life....if they are so much of a bad infleuence on you and is hurting your self esteem you need to SHUN them ....love your wife and love your child. Meet your family in festivals but dont see them so often that they preoccupy your mind.....may be help some one so that you feel better about yourself......

REMEMBER the only reson you get effected by your family is because YOU LET THEM....you let them treat you this way........you need to teach them how to treat u, if thats not possible them just let them go untill you feel as good as new ( my favourite OPRAH discourse!!!)