To begin with "this happened to a friend of mine" is totally clichéd but that's what is happening. So this is how it goes. A guy and a girl love each other very much or so they say. They can't be together because well one's a bahun and the other a chettri. So the guy decides to break up with the girl after 5 years of practically living as a husband and wife ( and I don't mean the physical relationship) more of a emotional attachment thing. Anyhow, the girl (obviously very emotional and a bit dramatic) ends up crying buckets of tears and threatening to die and all. The guy doesn't seem to mind too much, tells the girl to do what she wants, it isn't his fault, he says its 'bhagya: bhagya ma lekhekai chaina'. Me being the friend, I told her to get a life, move on, hearts are broken per second but she doesn't seem to be able to grasp the situation. I'm really scared for her since we aren't in the same part of the country. She says she loves him to death and blah blah blah...what do I tell her? I haven't played a counselor much so what should I tell her?