What I can infer from the discussion above is the obvious - We, nepali guys, are  misogynists: consciously or sub-consciously. We are ready to give benefit of the doubt to an male ADULT merely citing his uncontrollable hormones. However, the fault lies in the 15 year old, who planned deliberately all these years to reap the benefit of a US citizen. Hence, he's the victim and she's the culprit. Just like in all the aspects of our society, its always HER fault. Bravo!