Dude, you are filing for a green card and you expect people to reply to a thread titled "urgent help". Who do you think we are? Mother Teresa? I am too jealous of you to even read your whole question.  I read "I am filing for green card" and then stopped. People who are filing for green card should be able to afford a lawyer (I know that doesn't make much logical sense, but I am too jelous ). Good luck to you mate (not)

Edit: Evidently, there are people who are way nicer than me. Good for them!!