Don't say the M word....only tarai people can call each other the M word....it's like the N word in US...come to think of it M and N people are quite similar...they are dark skinned, like to wear colorful clothes, like bling blings although M people like the fake blings, M people decorate their shops with jari, and other colorful and shiny stuff etc while N people decorate their cars with shiny spinners and what not.