This is a really real question. Recently there was a similar situation to friend of mine. I don't know the disease name ( keep bleeding after the baby's birth due to back of something on blood or something, i forgot the medical term) but the guy and his wife knew that there is less then 99 % of survival of women if they are infected with that disease. Doctor warn them but they didn't go for abortion. the women decided to have a baby @any cost. if the guy loves his wife he should force his wife to have abortion at early phase. But they didn't choose that option. Finally, the women gave a birth to a baby and she died after couple of hours not even seeing the baby. Baby is healthy and fine.

Now, you guys who love your wife answer whether you choose your wife or baby !!!

Its definitely a very difficult decision to make..