"They think that I am angry even when I am not angry and THAT makes me angry and irritated. any words of wisdom?"

Why does it make you angry when other people think you are angry? It seems like you are easily angered. That's why others assume you are angry even when you are not.

Next time someone asks you if you are angry do not get angry! Instead just tell them what you are thinking. Just tell them you are constipated or something to break the ice.