@8848m-- I am sorry if my deleting some posts rubbed you the wrong way. My intention wasn't to offend anyone. I do really appreciate all the replies ( I know people are trying to help me). My only concern is that I have noticed that in sajha when people start arguing which one of two things is "right" then only 2-3 people get involved in that discussion and those 2-3 people keep writing to each other back and front trying to prove each other right/wrong.  I hope that made sense. Again, I do appreciate all the help and I apologize if my deleting some posts offended you. I hope you have a good day/night.

I have realized that a lot of people get offended if I delete their posts so I will NOT DELETE any posts anymore. Again, I am sorry for deleting some posts.