Okay, when she's talking about her problems and you don't offer any solutions but just listen , thats okay. But if you do offer good solutions, you will impress her. You can't just sit there and listen and let her do all the talking. She will think you're boring. Be a little flirtatious. Don't get too serious on your first date. Don't act too nervous, just be cool. Don't think about impressing her. Act like you would w/ your female friends. Just go with the flow. lol. You have to show her you're the myan!!!! Just don't over do it, lol. And just be yourself.