Once gain kalopani:  i read your post too fast. So i missed the great lines of yours: Only cure , i see is to stay in Nepal and try to be creative. you can eat better food, have social life and when you walk down the street you can walk with dignity.

I agree wholeheartedly!  There was an article not too long ago in Newsweek or Time or magazine of that sort stating that the US is missing great talents from countries like India since some (or most?) are preferring to go back home after finishing PhD or so, simply because getting a GC requires just too long, as long as 10 years!  Some of the Indian enterpreneurs turned out to be very succesful in india during the same 10 yr period!  Why bother waiting here!