Posted by: Femme Fatale December 17, 2009
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Yo Kbhanchayobhai,
You have to go with the times man.....personally, yes it doesn't soundnice when u hear of Nepali girls sleeping around and other misdemeanours. Nobody really wants to hear their sister, cousin, friend to take part in all that, but this is normal now in this day and age all over the world, especially in Nepal! They are more so advanced now! Digest this fact no matter how much u hate it. Nepal peeps are mostly in the 21st century and is common for girls to have live-in boyfriends ( i personally have no qualms about that) sleep around with many guys ( I have qualms about that, i have my conservative side, there is a limit) wear incredibly revealing clothes ( that's their business but have to be aware of the kind of signals it sends out and possibly the (wrong) kind of guys it attracts) and get blind drunk ( have fun but staying safe is key!) They're relishing their freedom, they found a chance to be themselves and do what they feel, free from suppression/oppression, what can u do...nothing...because it's happened, nothing stays the same...nothing u do or say will change it! Accept it!
U probably find it hard to accept is because previously Nepals women always were/are expected to keep low profile, behave, dress morally, be obedient and uphold reputation, refrain from reputation killing activities. Most girls would agree, guys always got more freedom to do what they hell they like, yes bitter taste, lol.
Of course, from parents perspectives, they probably don't want to give complete freedom to frolick around and misbehave but they can't lock up their daughters forever, daughters need education too and opportunities. Now girls are abroad, independent and intergrating into that society that permits such behaviours. C'est la vie!
Overall, it's the girls problem how she wants to act, if she wants to carry herself morally or immorally. Ultimately, she will perhaps see some consequences as a result of her actions, she will answer to them herself so don't get your knickers in a twist over it.
My honest 2 pennies, like it or hate it guys.
You have to go with the times man.....personally, yes it doesn't soundnice when u hear of Nepali girls sleeping around and other misdemeanours. Nobody really wants to hear their sister, cousin, friend to take part in all that, but this is normal now in this day and age all over the world, especially in Nepal! They are more so advanced now! Digest this fact no matter how much u hate it. Nepal peeps are mostly in the 21st century and is common for girls to have live-in boyfriends ( i personally have no qualms about that) sleep around with many guys ( I have qualms about that, i have my conservative side, there is a limit) wear incredibly revealing clothes ( that's their business but have to be aware of the kind of signals it sends out and possibly the (wrong) kind of guys it attracts) and get blind drunk ( have fun but staying safe is key!) They're relishing their freedom, they found a chance to be themselves and do what they feel, free from suppression/oppression, what can u do...nothing...because it's happened, nothing stays the same...nothing u do or say will change it! Accept it!
U probably find it hard to accept is because previously Nepals women always were/are expected to keep low profile, behave, dress morally, be obedient and uphold reputation, refrain from reputation killing activities. Most girls would agree, guys always got more freedom to do what they hell they like, yes bitter taste, lol.
Of course, from parents perspectives, they probably don't want to give complete freedom to frolick around and misbehave but they can't lock up their daughters forever, daughters need education too and opportunities. Now girls are abroad, independent and intergrating into that society that permits such behaviours. C'est la vie!
Overall, it's the girls problem how she wants to act, if she wants to carry herself morally or immorally. Ultimately, she will perhaps see some consequences as a result of her actions, she will answer to them herself so don't get your knickers in a twist over it.
My honest 2 pennies, like it or hate it guys.
Last edited: 17-Dec-09 05:58 PM