Posted by: Pret Aatma December 16, 2009
offensive or compliment?
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Depends on circumstances, places and people really. Some people make deliberate comments just to belittle others. Others are ignorant and/or naive. I would not mistake naivete for stereotyping.

If you are down south, people are more ignorant than racist in my observation and experience ( but then I myself could be generalizing just a bit too much here). 

In any case, if I were in your situation, I would take the remark as compliment and give her the benefit of my doubts (if any).




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