Quaggy & Ahead_Of_The_Rest.

You're most welcome guys...thanks a bunch...its nice to know i was able to bring out a different perspective from my experiences. What can i say, its pretty dangerous to risk your whole life on a complete stranger... oh where art thou my life-matey...have to keep askin.....hehe.... :D

Also, when u actually have few serious relationships but none of them works out as AOTR mentioned, then at least u know it just wasn't meant to be and u find out before u marry right. With arranged marriage, u just don't even know until your already in a$$ deep marriage and u can't back out...it turns into a 'have to stay and make this sh*t work for the kids or parents or izzat, etc' type of marriage. Erghhh. God forbid.

Nowadays, many of us are not personally arsed about intercaste marriages...
so 1 Question:. Do you guys want your future wife to be a certain religeon or not bothered?