whom will you choose possibly to marry?

1. somebody whom you love but he/she doesn't love you.

-- if he/she doesnt love you and you choose to marry and they love somebody else... waiiit a second..this sounds like arranged marriage..... he/she has a lover already but is pressurized to marry..and there u are..happy as a butterfly..madly in love with his/her pics.. NO!

2. somebody who loves but you don't love him/her.

-- so theres this guy/girl whos madly in love with u and wud do anything for u. but... you really dont love him/her because ur already in love with the person ur marrying from my answer to #1 above. Why would u choose to live with someone you dont love....for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!!. Its like being forced to live with that cousin who always bullies you and makes you lie to his parents to cover his ass up.

And as Mr.Youwanpras has subtly highlighted the projected danger of choosing either #1 or #2 and i dont think i wanna either throw myself into a gorge nor get crushed by a HUGE FALLEN LOG whilst in that dark gorge, #3 seems like a good option, everything else considered.