I agree with you in most of the the things you said.  But some questions for you..

I think you are lucky that you can think about bills, health insurance and stuffs, but its just my opinion. 

ani nepalko 20/30000 can seriously be compared with americi 5000? I don't think so. Nepalma 20/3000 ta tyettikai janchha ni, tara americama 5/7000 ta enough hunchha ni yar. Plus, yeha ko kati majors like aeronautical engr., health physics (which is my major :( )laai nepalma job kaha painchha ra yar, mitra?

Nepalma gayera ramrai lifestyle jiu bhane ni kaha painchah ra? Nepalma na batti aauchha, na paani aauchha. Euta gaadi kinau bahne ni kun din kasle fodidine ho k thaha?

About raising up children, nepal ma raise garnu bahnda ta yeha dherai bes ni, haina ra? Yehako padhai, surakshya, ani sabai chiz kaha nepal ko sanag compare garna milchha yar? nepalma bihana school gayeko chhora beluka farkanchha farkadaina k thaha yar? Completely agreed with your family values though, but i have confidence that I can teach my children family values. Not like NightElf who will helph is children have 16 dates before they turn 16. :)

Having said all this, It's ironic, but I have not yet changed my mind of going back to Nepal. :)