Posted by: rockey07 November 5, 2009
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Money comes money go.... but you have to remember the fact that family value is the most important thing. Here in America, you have no social life and no family values. You run for money without thinking about yourself. You have to think about bills, credit card, health insurance and what not. After coming to america and after starting to make some money, people starts to forget how small things can make them happy. Do you remember, how you used to be happy when your father bought a new Chinese tv ?? Price didnt matter back then. The thing what matters was the time we spend together as being a family watching that tv. But here in USA you wont be happy with these kinds of small things. You will need a big LCD tv to make every one happy.
And one more thing, I dont think that its wise to compare salary between Nepal and USA. What i think is that money is relative to the country. Making $5000 in a mont here in USA can be roughly equal to making Rs 20000/Rs 30000 in Nepal. Ofcourse you wont have a hi-fi life style like here in USA but you would surely have a decent life compared to Nepali standard.
Money is not the only factor that we should consider before making any decision weather to stay here in USA or move back to Nepal. Is it really worth it to raise your children over here? If you raise your children here, it is very likely that the child will adapt the norms of the society. No matter how hard you push, there is a strong chance that your child will grow up to be an American American not an Neplease American. I'm not saying that it is bad to be raised in American but having roots in Nepal, our family values are greater than any other thing. Will your child take care of you when you grow old? It is more likely that you'll end up in Nursing homes. And one more thing, will you be comfortable that by the time your child gets 16 he/she will already have 16 dates. Think about it.
Just remember, no matter how much money you make, no matter how much respect you get in your circle, u'll still be called amigo or muslims by Americans. You dont have white skin. There will always be some obstacle for you just because of you skin color.
I think the most wise thing to do will be to make some money after graduation by getting a job or if not "ghanta hanera nai bhaye pani 2/3 yr ma ta 20000/30000 minimum bani halcha ni". Then head back to nepal. After all "ban ko chari ban mai ramaucha".
JAY NEPAL