Yes, its true and painful. But you have not mentioned the "ONE" above us that you have responsibility of. We always get busy in this world of our own problems. Have you ever taken time to do something for the "ONE"?  I don't know whats your belief in , but I am being Hindu and lives in Maryland, I go to temple twice a month and donate each time $7. 00  to the temple and priest will do Archana for the "ONE" I wish. Or make a habit of donation, when you go anywhere, if you get a change and if there is donation around just put dime, penny anything whatever you have. Good luck.