I came across this one book, if you are a new parent this book is a great source for you in this foreign land. As you know, my friend she is single mom and she works full time and she puts her 3 year old in Day Care. And I couldn't believe myself when I see this 3 year old boy. So perfectly trained. She said her secret is the book. The book name is Emilypost's THE GIFT OF GOOD MANNERS: A Parents Guide to Raising, Respectful, Kind Considerate Children. I went to library and I went through myself before I write about on Sajha. Its 400 pages and worth it to read. Very simple. So Parents please go to your library or bookstore just to browse it and you will know. Thank you!!