Hi Yeap

Not too long ago, I attended a wedding party. The groom's mother was absent because the visa was denied for her. The father was able to attend because he had a government passport. Usually, it is more difficult for younger person to get visa.  That is why people wondered when you mentioned that you wanted to invite your brother rather than your parents.

About the lawyers, you are right.  For them, any case is a winning case until we paid the fees.  Then they would point out all the glitches. However, when you are desperate you still have to consult them.

Wish you good luck.