Posted by: I October 8, 2009
Sad news of Nepali died in Car accident in Oklahoma
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Mr. Tuppi,



First of all, I am very sorry for the loved ones you lost
because of drunk drivers. I know the pain that you feel, and hope that no one
on the world has to suffer through that.



We can see that you empathize on the people who have lost
their friend or relative due to drinking and  driving related accidents. But right now,
people who drink and drive are not reading this post (i.e.drunk drivers), maybe
some ,but most people who are reading this are probably people close to Balram.
So, a person with common sense would guess that the purpose of your writing (to
educate people of dangers of drunk driving) is proving useless right now. I
would suggest writing these same comments on posts that has party or alchohol
as topics or tags, where you can find possible accident makers in future.



The thing is even though you hate drunk drivers (maybe
Balram too), you are inflicting pain on others( people close to Balram) but not
the drunk drivers. If you are a good human being then you would sympathize on
the family who have lost their 2nd son in a year (yes its true) and
the friends who loved his friend dearly. I bet these are not the people who you
are angry with right? Or are you on a crusade of causing pain to the innocent
family, because its seems like you are doing such. I bet there is no drunk driver who has read this post and said I
will quit drinking and driving.



We can see that you are trying to prove that you are trying
to be a better human being. But we can also see that the others here are not
supporting drinking and driving either.  Please
take your personal agenda to a post where it will be effective. If you are as
good as a human being that you are trying to prove here, then you will probably think about his innocent family for few seconds who you are hurting by writing such comments. If you are still trying to argue and provide more discussion then you
probably are a miserable low life who needs some attention in the expense of
the grieving family and friends.



As a fellow human being, not just being nepali, I would
suggest you to please take down your comments and show respect to the family
and friends even if you do not do it for Balram.



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