RIP Balaram.

Tuppi, you sound like a jerk, a patmurkha. Everybody knows DUI is bad thing; you don't need lecture here. Nobody needs your dumb advice because the person who you spilled your poison about is no longer in this world. If you didn't have sympathy, you didn't need to drop by and vomit your venom.

Only people who are mourning have to read your craps. Leave them alone. And the other thing is it is not clear whether he was under influence. Peace.