बैरे जि. sorry for saying "kapati thinking" it was a poor choice of word तर यो कथामा  मलाई धरै कुरा हरु मन परेन one example,  {{बैरेले "मन मनै - Ohh I wish you really knew me झै लाग्यो , फेरी डाइलग दिए - " It doesn't matter where one is , what matters is who one is with ।।।।। " तरुनी दङ्ग !!!!!" }}If you don't mean it why even say it ? I don't agree with  "Every Thing is fair in love and war " I think this statement apply to those who wants do whatever they want do and don't think about the consequences.