Do not listen to others, listen to yourself. Once you are out of country and not planning to back for good an  arrange marriage may not be a good idea.

No matter whom you are going to unite,  first and the most important thing is you both must have understanding and compatibility  which carries the married life. If you find this to any girl go for it, if not answer is NO.

The mantras " Compatibilty and Mutual undestanding"