Yeh don't worry its all rumors that you have heard, if you are working for a legit company u sud not have any problems. Got mine stamped last month without any problem. It takes about 10 days for appointment from the time you apply in Nabil bank, went there right after i landed. For the employment approval stamp use a dalal. Its few bucks more but can be done in a day instead of the days.

Watch out of the Nabil Bank bitches taking your application form. They are bunch of snobs and act like they are employed by the US Embassy and your future is in their hands.