Boy enjoy it, at least your wife's friend is not a boy. I knew one guy, he has a roommate used to say didi, and bhinaju is to work overnight work at gas station. In couple years, he lost the job as well his wife. Now his wife is ex-wife.
Now I am seeing similar situation and the story goes this way "didi" is loosing her husband.
Have you ever tested "ह्याकुला" it is full of fat and once you love it, you are hooked-up for life. So be careful, do not get hooked up with " saali or kind ह्याकुला". Ha ha ha .