What?? What kind of friends do you have?

Sajha boards are hardly indicators of real-world social behavior. It's like people constantly fighting on youtube... the anonymity somehow seems to bring the worst out of people. Even when I meet random Nepalis in real life, we always get along great. Of course jealousies can sometimes develop between people, but i think it's in the minority the number of people who would go out of their way to bring others down. That's from my experience anyway, so explanations against it are hardly going to change my view.