Posted by: spreadlove May 20, 2009
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I have to agree with ANS on this. Hating everyone but yourself and your family has become our national trait. Thats how we have been conditioned. Changing place wont help. Our ancestors were carrying that trait, we have inherited that and if we still dont work on it we will for sure pass that tait on to our future generations. My personal analysis on "WHY we like to hate"
This statement that follows has become our part time/full time job"A Nepali spends his life in reasoning on the past, in complaining of the present, in fearing future", because the caretakers have given us that trait. Politicians who have most influences in media and our normal life are seen bickering, obstructing, fighting, quarreling, disagreeing, and complaining all over, repeatedly. They dont seem to learn. They influences us so much that we start thinking to ourselves whats point being a Nepali.WE then start looking for excuses to have this false sense of pride anyways. WE look to downgrade neighbors, neighboring countries and other who seem to have direct connection with us. Bring them down, we'll appear upper at least, not necessarily we'll rise but at least we'll seem upper. WE apply that into our daily life activities. Seeing others around us rising fills us with jealousy, hatred and envy.
Botomlines
1. Inherited and repeated usage of complain, hate,because of self-doubt, is hard at work in our mind. and that repeated action has become a daily habit
2 The more we are complaining, the better we are feeling about ourselves. It's nothing but our way of showing us how messed up the rest of the world is and, by comparison, we're not that messed up.
3. It usually boils down to wanting to feel better about yourself, your experience and your circumstance. Complaining and hating others won't get you there. Deliberately finding something good about yourself, your experience and your circumstance will get you to that place of feeling better.
rgds...
This statement that follows has become our part time/full time job"A Nepali spends his life in reasoning on the past, in complaining of the present, in fearing future", because the caretakers have given us that trait. Politicians who have most influences in media and our normal life are seen bickering, obstructing, fighting, quarreling, disagreeing, and complaining all over, repeatedly. They dont seem to learn. They influences us so much that we start thinking to ourselves whats point being a Nepali.WE then start looking for excuses to have this false sense of pride anyways. WE look to downgrade neighbors, neighboring countries and other who seem to have direct connection with us. Bring them down, we'll appear upper at least, not necessarily we'll rise but at least we'll seem upper. WE apply that into our daily life activities. Seeing others around us rising fills us with jealousy, hatred and envy.
Botomlines
1. Inherited and repeated usage of complain, hate,because of self-doubt, is hard at work in our mind. and that repeated action has become a daily habit
2 The more we are complaining, the better we are feeling about ourselves. It's nothing but our way of showing us how messed up the rest of the world is and, by comparison, we're not that messed up.
3. It usually boils down to wanting to feel better about yourself, your experience and your circumstance. Complaining and hating others won't get you there. Deliberately finding something good about yourself, your experience and your circumstance will get you to that place of feeling better.
rgds...