i am in favor of surajkharel. america is nothing but paradise jail. It is a paradise because all the comfort are here. 24/7 water, electricity, car, everything, but you got a work your ass off. Nothing much buddy, all you have to do is to be sick for few months then you will see real america. No loved ones, no friends, everything will wind up in bills. No social back up at all. Just like jail what you are missing here is your families, friends, and  your loved ones. All you have is  just phone calls and if you are lucky you might get a chance of going back your home once every two years. That also depends upon how much vacation you can take from your job and if you were able to save enough money to go back because you have to think about paying the monthly mortgage and insurance and monthly bills. Just like in jail you have some security here, since it is a jail you need to have security. I am for sure more secured then what i was back in my country. But are you able to give some security to your own family and loved ones who are back in the country facing all kind of situations.  I am also trapped in this paradise just like each and everyone of you guys. It is nothing to be proud of. You have to have a big will power to overcome the power of this paradise. Enjoy the paradise.