Not to be a party-pooper, but this sounds like a domestic dispute gone awry. I don't know Jhamke dai. Sounds like a nice guy. But there are always two sides, sometimes even more, to the story. What other facts do we know? Is buhari a real culprit here? Are we to base our decision on the fact that a-jaat ko buhari divorced the son? They have upgraded the house. Can they sell their renovated house and move to a lesser house similar to before? I don't know, seems like there are too many questions.
I am not saying that people should not help Jhamke dai. Please do so, if you believe that is a right thing to do. But after reading the original post, I felt that there are probably more deserving destinations for your charitable dollars.
Just my honest opinion. I am sorry Poonte-dai, I have been a fan of your funny posts.