ctal: thanks for replying. What I want to hear from the Sajha-ites is their personal individual opinion about this issue. Mainly because of the fact that sex is such a hush-hush matter in our community. You have given good insight as to the pros and cons of such thinking. I would encourage readers to participate and share their thoughts about this.

It is hard for us because currently we are witnessing two oceans of thoughts mix and evolve into something new. East meets West has been a common topic of discussion for countries such as China, India, Japan, a couple of decades ago because thats when they got full exposure to Western thinking.

Now its time for Nepal to have those discussions as well because changes in our way of thinking have already taken place due to massive exposure to other communities. I am not here to criticize the good from the bad and would ask contributors to do the same.

I'm also wondering how we came to be this way, since our temples and places of worship are undoubtedly depicted as sexually aware places. I mean even the lions have boobs! Why do we shun something that we used to celebrate so long ago?