I think the theme is not that clear, what type of discussion do you prefer to go on about sex? What do you exactly want to hear from Sajhaites?

Everyone thinks - sex is essential as you agreed, provides some pleasure and everyone wants to have it with anyone including top models/singers, hero/heroines, etc at anytime whenever free anywhere if there was no problem. But, if the other side is not interested on you or does not enjoy with you, sex is not the sex you want to have. Sex is sex only when both sexual partners share some feelings and chemistry or attraction. So, any sex (at the trial) period before both the sexual partners deeply fall in love or feel for each others is useless and you don't enjoy it. Next, the social norms or rules are developed because sex with anyone at anytime and anywhere creates so many problems.

There should be a moderate view adn opinion about sex - something between Sex and the (Nepali) Samaj and Sex and the (American) City. Nepali Samaj is too conservative about sex and especially female suffer from it. American societies are too open and unwanted pregnancies are the problems; so many developing lives (fetus) are died by abortion every year, especially byproduct of sex (children) and also the mother mostly suffer and also a headache for father.