i think ur analogy sounds sorta out of line. when u hate someone - u have reasons such as he/she has hurt u, demoralized u, insult u, correct?

reasons to hate India -

1. always look and talk down on us.

2. encroach our lands everyday - burning issue.

3. claim Buddha is theirs and if possible they could claim Mt.Everest too.

4. build dams along our major rivers that affect aquatic life and the life of people. do u even know narayani river used to have dolphins and now they are gone. do u even know why they are gone? do u even know animals migrate just like humans and when u obstruct their watery highways, they die.

5. send their bhikaris to Nepal streets.

Ironically, we have to depend on them for our survival but that doesn't mean we have to give up our dignity and self respect.

reasons not to hate America -

1. always helped Nepal. gave 25 million dollars to fight against maoists etc.

2. never threatened our identity and never talked down on us.

3. hispanics and other races are still incospicously treated as second class citizens here.  

4. above all, we are leading comfortable life here due to their visas. don't u agree.

i too beleive in harmony but not this kind of harmony where pahadias have to flee for their life. no sirreeee.