"You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy when skies are grey, you never know dear how much I love you, please don't take my sunshine away!"

Dear sweet Sunshine, this is what love is all about. Think about the pain your mum went through when she delivered you. She accepted the pain of childbirth in order to bring you out into this world. In other words, with every pain or sorrow, there is a tiny seed of hope and love. With this broken heart of yours, look for that tiny seed that you can nurture into a thing of beauty.

For a start, I would suggest you change your picture in your profile. Turn around and face the world. Dont hide behind your sleek black hair. Look at yourself directly. Be bold, be brave. Show the world who you really are. Show the world your sunshine qualities. Be proud of the woman your mother brought into this world. Hurt and pain belongs to everyone of us. So does, love and joy. Every time you fell when you took your first steps in life, your loving mother would rush and pick you up. Console you with loving words and encourage you to walk again.

If I am in your mother's shoes, I'll pick you up, dust your clothes, lift up your chin, hold your hands and push you forward again. You have such wonderful, loving friends in this thread. They all care for you. Probably they too have been down this road before. But it is episodes like this that toughens us. It makes us realise the difference between lovers and Love. Turn and face the world and be the sunshine for someone else who is longing for love. You have so much love to give. Give it all away, my dear. And God will send you the best love you can ever find - HIS LOVE.

Your words have touched my heart in more than one way. Love you girl!