Dear SunShine,

 Have you ever tried to think, why did he dump you? I tell you the reason, because you loved him too much and he took it for granted. Imagine a situation, after few months your heart is healed; now you are in love with another gentleman, everything is going fine but this gentleman loves you too much that his love for you is his weakness, he cares you too much that your every steps, your every words bothers him, he starts analyzing about every tiny things about you, he starts being too much possessive and too much judgemental about you….that day you might dump that gentleman as your ex dumped you.

SunShine, your love for your ex is the greatest, not himself. Why are you glorifying it too much? Why are you telling your heart that he loved you, when it’s crystal clear that he just wanted your company and never loved you as you did? Why do you still want the situation to be in your favour? Why do you still want him back or want that he would love you again? Why are you pretending as if changes did not happen? Change is the universal rule, it happens whether you like it or not, either enjoy the change, or stay crying saying, “Why did this change happen?” Everything has changed but you are the one who is not accepting the change.

Once upon a time there was a gorgeous girl (A). Then there was a good looking guy (B) who was truly madly deeply in love with A and he was desperate to get her. But he was sad that A never loved him. Then another not so good looking girl (C) entered into the story. C loved B as much as B loved A. If you believe that one should get his/her true love, please tell me the solution for this story.

Time is the healer, and you will feel very strong oneday. But please do not take long time for this. Your heart should be strong enough to absorb the sorrows and pains of the surrounding and release the love and happiness for the surrounding. Why don’t you change your style of loving and start smiling again? Everyone deserves love, your family, your friends, co-workers, society, country, the whole world….. Why don’t you start loving everyone as much as you love your ex? Please remember, not expecting love from others for your love for them is the greatest way to love. Just forgive your ex for his mistake as if he was your baby.

Well, the thing you achieved that no one could is your experience. Human tests the purity of gold by putting it on fire, and God gave you the hard time to test your purity, now all impurities have been burnt.