"i am not saying women should not be loved or respected but what is the use of that --- unstable society?"

Oh so in order to bring stability in the society,  women should always be forthcoming to immolate their desires and happiness! Since when did a society, any society become a sole responsibility of women?

         Whether a girl lives in some remote Nepali village or a big city of the United States, she has every right just like you men do to live life in her own terms. Too bad, most women in our country don't know or don't use the right to the fullest because they fear that if they do, it could lead to anything from humiliation, to banishment to even death sometimes. I am glad that atleast after coming to the country some women stop living by the rules of men even if that causes the whole paradigm of these male chauvinists' crumbling!