..just pick one and get on with life....I have lived in US for five years no foreigners has ever told me ..."No you are 'Nepelese' not 'Nepali'"...its however we tell them to call us and there is no right or wrong, ....its us..... being comfortable or not..

by the way all  "ese" folks, how abt Iraqi and Pakistani etc...lot of em have "an" or "ian" also...american, canedian, egyptian etc....lot of em"sh" english, turkish etc.....

I am sticking with nepali because thats what i was taught as a kid and thats what i have been calling myself for last 23 years..."naani dekhi lageko bani"....and I dont find anything wrong saying this way anywayz .......but like i said if u wanna call Nepelse go for it.......peace