There is L1 visa, which is basically business visa. If you have one, you can bring ur spouse and childerns as dependents. If you think you can spent 50-100 grand, find someone here in US who can be ur partenrs and file the L1 visa. Or find something that you can start with that amount.

Other things, Just come to US in B1/B2 with ur family and spent all those money to change ur status here. Find a good lawyer There are several ways like -- go to college, file asylum, divorce and get paper marry, or atleast illegally.......(choose wisely)

OR finally, keep on filling DV programme, may luck favours you........