Haribansa, some mistakes that are made deliberately or intentionally can not be pardoned. And, she cheated me and my family not only in the relationship but by financially as well, very heavily. If I pardon and allowe her to come in my and my son's lives, she will futher mesh up our lives instead of bringing in happiness in our lives as I know her nature and attitude. I can't belive some woman can be so mean and do everything for her pleasure. So, we are better off without her and I don't want to be cheated further by her.

Yes U_day, I had invested or spent for her over 20-25 lakhs during marriage, later on and after separation. She dies for money and the reason she wants to come back is not because she developed some love and felt some responsibility for my son, but because she wants to use me to make some money and that's my understanding.