Posted by: nepalionline November 10, 2008
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Dallas Guy,
I think the main issue is not of money but of priorities, not of communication but of each other's language.
She wants to buy a house. A nice home and a good family is of utmost importance to most women. House is her priority.
You want to be a part of health club. You want to stay fit and manage your weight problem.
You want to buy a guitar. You love music and want to be a part of it. Health and music are your priorities.
Can you speak in her language and explain her that you value health and music exactly the way she values owning a house?
In case of arguments, don't try to be a 'fixer' (men tend to do so) but just listen. There might be more reasons to why she doesn't want you to join a health club or buy a guitar.