Thank you all for your comments. Much appreciated.

Guys, lets be realistic. I am not in a relationship with american woman or something that I can get out of the relationship in the blink of an eye. We are a married couple and and we have vowed to live together infront of our families and public to spend the life together. So no question of leaving her. I can't imagine my life with another woman. I want things to work out between her and myself. If she can't appreciate the music, I can't simply leave her and be with other woman. If she argues and fights me over me spending money on my needs, its not wise idea for me to dump her like that. Because I care about her.

Regarding talks, I have done it enough. She even knows doctor report of me gaining weight and high cholestoral. She also knows how much I am determined and focussed once I start on something. I am not a type of guy who starts on something and leaves in the middle.

Bideshi jee, BTW understanding the importance of each other's parents we both have set aside a portion of our income for it. It used to be huge issue before but not any more. Thanks for your concerns.