Thanks folks for your response.

Gazabko_manche jee,

I understand this separation of portion of your income in order to buy a guitar or to spend on my parents. But to pay for your health club and fitness center, does it make sense to do this? Can you compromise anything with your health? Why do I need to separate money to spend for my own health? Help me out here. That said, I have asked her to join the fitness club also. If she doesn't want to join, what can I do. But whey does she need to create an issue if I want to spend on my health?

I am very disturbed right now guys.