It is hard to give any comment.

But what is ur parents thinking about you when you will get married. Talk to your parents that you need to get married, and stop that old relationship and be free do not bring any such relationship, do not take chance.

I would say ask him one day when you both are close and make it clear will he marry you or not . If not then Stop that relationship you will get some one better then him.

When you get the idea that he is no more intrested on him. Then just be with him and focus on ur carrier, and ur future and when you get better job any where just go. and from there you will cut him. but make sure if you meet him then do not let your self back to the past.

If you have good job your level of confidence will be high and then u will select the boys not the boys will select you.