alina, ur story sounds a bit like mine. here's what i did. i got rid of him. when u have problems just don't bury it inside. confront it. we broke up for abt 4 months. i moved on...he moved on. well, only i knew how much i was hurt and how much i loved him. but then again u can't let anyone ruin ur life. i was a lil depressed the first 3 months and after that i simply moved on. had fun with frens and what not. trust me there aint no shortage of guys...nepali or non-nepali. but the catch is, don't fall for anyone who comes along and offer u help. take ur time. oh, returning to what happened to me was, he actually found a girl(nepali) who was pretty much ready to offer him everything and intended to settle down with him. well i know.....why i dumped him.....and wht a jerk guys can b. btw, he called me one day out of nowhere and wanted to get back together. we did have a long talk but i didn't say yes. wht i did was gave him the list of things i wanted to see changed. the list included: talking to his parents about marrying me, telling me the truth about the past 4 months(nothing but the truth...good or bad), and some other stuffs.....
we're back together now. stronger and much more understanding. a lot of changes were made during this break up....a lot from his side and yes some from my side too. it's all about working together. but gurl, u need to be upfront.
wht i'm trying to tell you is, talk to him about what u want out of this relationship and if he can offer it. if he starts making up excuses...then seriously, get rid of him and move on. if he loves you enough, he'll try to get back to you and starts working things out. if not, then just move on. why would you want to waste ur time....n jawani...while u have it? your young n fun now...u'll find plenty. once your old then god knows how hard will it b to start over...