Sujita that is not the poiint, I have nothing against newars or anybody. All I am saying is you are pointing towards one kind of people. I enjoy newari culture the food the festivals, I clelerbrate like my own.. but when you come to a public place like this, it is going to be any issue..
Like you said it.. I too have many many many newar friends and there are so many we have been friends since we ran in our kattu's and played guchha... we don't look at eachother as oh!! you are chettri, you are a newar.. you are a rai or limbu.. we are just friends... we didnt' became friends to talk about caste or religion.. we became friends cause we liked the same things.. we enjoyed hanging out together.. we went to the same school.. we chased the same girls..

once we can overcome our differences than we can stirve for a better nepal.. ortherwise GoodLuck with your support group....