As a resident of Dallas, I am familiar with the names that were mentioned by NST Suvachintak in his/her defamatory thread and its mindboggling to come across these overtly biased views. I am ambiguous about the gender of the thread originator because it is set as female in the profile but I doubt very strongly that the person is a female. If the person is a male, I find this act of hiding and intention to mislead very cowardly.

          Nepali Community in Dallas is a community of roughly 15000 people with the number rising everyday. Among them around 1500 participate in public events and the rest choose to stay as numbers. The names that were mentioned belong to good Samaritans of Dallas who, despite our backbiting nature inherent in our community, set to lead the pack for the common good. They chose to perform leadership roles in our community without aligning themselves with a certain coterie and they still pursue that legacy for which they deserve accolades not these e-thrashes.

          In Nepali Community, it is not hard to know one another and come across at times because most of us frequent the same locations. When someone vilifies us, we take it very seriously no matter it be a hearsay or in a web forum because we are a closely knit circle. So much so since it is in a thriving forum like Sajha Kurakani, it is taken very seriously due to its popularity and wide range of viewers from gramps to toddlers. However, only the victim can feel the intensity and aggravation of the scorn. And this kind of harm once done is done. It’s irreversible. That’s why I would like to see the culprit punished.

         Here the culprit is NSTSuvachintak who lost his manhood, disguised under a woman’s profile and hurled stones at real men who believed in themselves and championed the common cause. It’s not the fault of Sajha.com neither that of Americadarpan.com. The latter is headquartered in Dallas so it might have, out of urgency, condemned the cowardly act to secure the dignity of its reputable residents.

         Instead of playing the blame-game, we have to examine both perspectives and listen to each other. Most importantly, we should not harbor or if you will, encourage these wrongdoers and culprits who spread gangrene in our society. San reserves the right not to release private information to third party unless it is a legal entity. His values and efforts are praiseworthy. Nonetheless, sometimes Junge’s Law works wonders especially in our community. If NSTSuvachintak’s ass is dragged out of his bunker and flogged publicly in Irving Mall Parking Lot and everything broadcast live via Sajha.com on Pay-Per-View, we would not see another one very soon very often.

          It's solely my personal opinion and you are free to disagree with me. But please don't just disagree without even disagreeing on matters. Thank you.