Guys,

My goal of posting it here was to see how those who dated musalte or those whose family members dated musalte behave. And I have no doubt that some of you who posted here in support of that (whether by trying to pose as liberal, or trying to say it is choice) does have that background.

All I am saying is these girls needed to look around, they are not animals who can sleep with anyone just because they like them, okey? Also, note that whenever these girls are dating musalte, they badmouth Nepali (this girl in particular told me that indirectly. She used to call me bhai because I was younger than her, and occasionally invite me to her party with her housemates. In one house party, she told me that her female Arabian friend says Nepali boys are like monkeys -small and graceless. I told her that her friend hadn't seen many Nepali and not everybody looked like me, which followed with a stunned silence.) After her relationship was over, this same girl used to ask me to company her to Saks Fifth Avenue or other places, because according to her, "She is feeling bad.."

I looked at her closely for months, and I realize that like all ordinary girl, this girl fell in love with a musalte. This girl was naive to believe that the relationship was symmetrical. I am sure the musalte must have said a lot of good things to her, probably washed her clothes and cleaned her dishes, must have done something extraordinary for her to literally open herself up for that boy, and believe in him. But I knew that things were not so straightforward. I wanted to tell her that, but it was useless. She posted photos with the musalte in her website. She was more than willing , and one day, it all came down crashing. She was crestfallen,but I am sure she will move on. But she won't have easy time to move on, because almost all Nepali boys I have met had a strong aversion towards dating a girl who has slept with musalte. This is proven by postings here too. It has nothing to do with being conservative or anything, just like these girls have CHOICE, other boys too. Nepali ketaharu who have hanged out with Pakis musalte know that these creatures are extremeley wretched and dirty wherever they were born, and it would take a lot to consume  the second hand product they already used. We wish goodluck to those girls--not stone or anything, but I wish their parents had told them about these people. We Nepali need to be proud of one fact: We are the best people in the world, and our ancestors were always very proud of this. Call me racist if you want.